How to Not Die Alone
The Surprising Science of Finding Love
Have you ever wondered why everyone seems to find love except you? You're not alone. Great relationships are the result of a series of decisions, from who to date to when to commit. However, our brains often hinder us, leading to poor choices that obstruct our search for lasting love. Drawing on years of research, behavioral scientist and dating coach Logan Ury uncovers the hidden forces behind these mistakes. But awareness alone isn't enough; changing your behavior is crucial. Each chapter of this book focuses on a specific decision, blending insights from behavioral science, original research, and real-life stories. You'll discover what's holding you back in dating and how to break those patterns, what truly matters in a long-term partner, and how to navigate the challenges of online dating effectively. You'll also learn to meet more people in real life through activities you enjoy, make dates enjoyable rather than stressful, and understand why "the spark" is a myth—yet love is still attainable. This data-driven, step-by-step guide, complete with practical exercises, aims to transform your approach to relationships, helping you find, build, and maintain the relationship of your dreams.